In the world we live in, we are constantly inundated with many different images of women. We are told by media, friends, family what they think a women should be. Everything is taken into consideration- from weight, height, career, make up and clothes she wears to the people she is associated with. But as we look deeper and really understand ourselves and who we are, we are faced with a truth that is hidden. The truth we are valuable, significant, and bearers of a responsibility as a women that surpass our outer extremities.
The marks of a women can be categorized as such:
DEPENDABLE- A women who is great is one who can be depended upon no matter what.
Proverbs31:11-12- Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
Proverbs31:15-She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
She is accessible when needed, and she can be a great sense of encouragement to others even though she herself has her own struggles.
HARDWORKING– A women of greatness is good with her hands.
Proverbs31:13-She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.
Proverbs31:24-She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for the tasks.
She can create opportunities for herself through her inventive spirit. She is a creative, resourceful and always committed to going beyond what is required to produce the most effective results. When people tells her she can`t, she tells herself, yes I can!
HELPFUL AND GENEROUS: A women marked for greatness is one who not only has a trail- blazing spirit and is prosperous in all she does, but one who has a generous spirit towards others and is willing to share all the knowledge, wisdom and resources she’s gathered to help other women succeed as well.
Proverns31:20- She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
TEACHABLE: A women of greatness is one who not only willing to plant seeds of wisdom and knowledge into others lives but one who welcomes insight, nourishment and wisdom imparted from other great women.
Ruth3:5- I will do whatever you say, Ruth answered.
LOVING: A great women gives and receives love from others without limitations. She sees the best in all people, flaws and all! For she realizes that all of us are imperfect people, and we need to exemplify love towards each other.
Ruth4:15- He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age.
Genesis24:18-20- Drink my lord, she said, and quickly lowered the jar to her hands and gave him a drink. After she had given him a drink, she said, I`ll draw water for for your camels too, until they have had enough to drink.
WISE: Wisdom is Her Head covering. She walks in it, eats it, digest it, and allows it to work fully in all areas of her life.
PROVERBS31:26- She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
HUMBLE: Regardless of what condition she finds herself in life and what accomplishments she has required, she realizes the importance to stay humble.
1Peter3:4- Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quite spirit, which is of great worth in Gods sight.
You can can go a long way in life but with pride and arrogance, what awaits her long the way is a great fall.
Proverbs29:23- Pride brings a person low, but the lowly in spirit gain honor.
MODESTLY DRESSED: A women is marked by greatness loves God and seeks to present herself in a way that is appropriate and pleasing to God.
1Timothy2:9-I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes.
TRUSTWORTHY AND HONEST: A women greatness is one who makes it her aim to speak the truth. She isn’t trying to be deceptive or misleading, and her purpose isn`t to intentionally cause anyone to fall because of her actions.
Proverbs21:23- Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.
GREAT SPIRIT: A women marked by greatness is one who is gentle in her conduct. She is not loud, boisterous, aggressive or intimidating.
Proverbs9:13-Folly is an unruly women; she is simple and knows nothing.
TAKES CARE OF HER FAMILY: A women marked by greatness always make sure her family is well taken care of and has all of it`s needs met.
Proverbs31:14- She is like a merchant ship, bringing food from afar.
When we look at all the characteristics or attributes of great women, it wouldn’t be right for me not to mention some powerful biblical examples of great godly women.
(Ruth 2:7,17)- is noted as hardworking
(Esther 4:15-16)- noted as brave
Sarah-trusted God. (Hebrews11:11)
Mary-surrendered to the will of God.( Luke1:38)
Rebekah-was kind. (Genesis4:18-20)
Priscilla- is noted as being biblically, knowledgeable, wise( Genesis24:20)
These are a few exemplary examples of great women in the Bible. I have been very encouraged by my research of these great women, and my charge to all of us as women marked by greatness is to always make it our aim in all we do to serve and honor God.
God is at the forefront of all that we do, and we must seek him and acknowledge him in everything [ Matthew 6:33] Without God, we can do nothing! If we follow Gods direction, and walk according to his purpose and plan for our lives, then and only then can we be women ” Marked by greatness!”
God Bless